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Saturday, June 19, 2010

Online Dating, When is PERSONAL TOO PERSONAL?

When we are talking about online dating, you need to walk a fine line deciding how to what extent are you going to give your personal information in your post. You want your profile to be honest and on the other hand this information is available to anyone searching for it so you need to be careful.
On one level you might feel totally safe posting your information when you’re sitting at home in your living room you should be very careful posting any information that might give someone enough to go on to identify you in real life.
You don’t wants to think that their online dating profile could be seen by someone who is a criminal or someone who has ulterior motives in looking for a partner but the fact is that there are all kinds of people who use online dating services for all kinds of reasons.
Apart from the risk of attracting stalkers, your online personal profile might attract thieves who are searching for victims to steal their identities. Identity theft is one of the most common crimes in the country today. You need to be vigilant about protecting your personal information so that you don’t end up a victim of identity theft.
Most Internet dating sites don’t screen their applicants very thoroughly so your information could be seen by the potential love of your life but also by someone who just wants to harm you.
You can be honest about your personality and give people who are browsing your profile a sense of who you are without revealing too much identifying information if you are careful. Express your thoughts and feelings but leave out the facts.
You should also be vigilant of profiles that give away too much information. Odds are those profiles are not going to be genuine because no one would post a profile that gave away their real name, city, phone number, or other identifying information. Usually, if someone posts personal information like that in their profile they have some other reason for it as well as meeting a prospective partner.

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