Online Dating, What to wear on a first date

For both men and women, choosing what to wear to that first meeting can be a nerve-wracking experience. You want to look nice but not formal, comfortable but not sloppy, and, of course, you need to wear something appropriate for the place that you’re meeting.

Since you have talked to your online date but not met yet, there is even more anxiety than there would be with a normal date because you will be really nervous about the other person finding you attractive. But you can get through it!

So how can you find the perfect thing to wear that will make a great first impression? Here are some tips for picking out the perfect outfit to wear on your first date.

Comfort is essential – Since the situation is already going to be a little awkward and uncomfortable, it’s important that you are wearing something that is comfortable so that you will feel comfortable and not be fussing with your clothes all night.

If you are uncomfortable in your clothes, that will show in how you interact with your date and it will make you both uncomfortable. So picking an outfit that is comfortable and flattering is the most important thing.

Pick something appropriate – What you wear should be appropriate for where you are going. If you are going out for coffee, dressy jeans and a nice sweater or shirt and jacket should be fine. If you’re going to the park, don’t wear a mini skirt or a business suit and tie. Plan an outfit appropriate for the location.

If you think that you might want to get dinner or something after the initial meeting you can bring a bag with a nicer outfit in it in case you need to change.
Don’t dress too sexy – This is a mistake that a lot of people, especially women, make when meeting for the first time. Pick an outfit that is sexy in an understated way if you want to dress a little sexy. Feminine and sophisticated is far sexier on a first date than a shrink wrapped dress, cleavage baring top, or micro mini skirt and high heels.

Your outfit will be a big part of the first impression that you make so pay attention to things like cut, color, shape, and the quality of the clothes. Never wear clothes that are dirty, ripped, or that you would wear to the gym on a date.