Sometimes, you will be the one that is getting rejected. It’s unpleasant. It hurts. It’s humiliating. And it happens to everyone. It’s entirely possible that you can meet the love of your life online but, unfortunately, it’s also entirely possible that you will face a lot of rejection before you find that love.
So how do you deal with it when someone that you thought you really connected with doesn’t want to see you again? It’s tough. No matter how many times it happens it’s always tough. It is okay to feel bad about it.
If you were getting along very well with the other person before you met in person and after that the other person didn’t want to see you again it’s easy to assume that the problem was the way you look or that the person didn’t find you attractive but that might not be it at all. There could be a thousand reasons that the other person didn’t want to pursue the relationship.
Not every relationship is going to work out. If you have a hard time handling rejection then online dating might be hard for you. Sometimes, people can find great relationships right away but sometimes people need to wade through a lot of ads and a lot of first dates before finding a person that they want to pursue a serious relationship with.
As you get more experienced at dating online you will grow a thicker skin and it will be easier to shrug it off when someone you thought that you had some chemistry with decided that he or she doesn’t want to see you again.
If it makes you feel better to wallow a little after getting rejected then go right ahead and wallow. Spend a weekend on the couch in your pajamas with a pizza and a gallon of ice cream watching chick flicks and crying. Go out with your buddies to drink and talk about how the other person lost out on a great catch. Do whatever you need to do in order to help you get over it.
Then pick yourself up and try again. It might not be easy to find the love of your life but he or she is out there and you will never find that person if you’re not looking. You don’t have to jump into another relationship right away but at least update your online profile and search through some profiles to see if you find any of them interesting.
Remember the saying about the lottery, “You have to be in it to win it”? Well, in order to win the dating lottery you have to put your profile out there and face a little rejection from time to time.
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